Some abies just need it made very clear to them what they are. I can be very comforting and supportive. There are some abies though that need someone to be direct and honest, and hearing it sends chills up their spine. It’s so much fun just cutting it all down and getting straight about it. You are a baby, a big diaper-wearing baby who needs Mommy to tell you what’s right and what’s wrong. There is nothing wrong with that people need different things.